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@Macka , the first part I can answer for you. 1. Turn off ALL loads . 2. disconnect solar input. Remember it will still produce current even in weak light. 3. Disconnect battery terminals. Re- connection is the reverse - ie. connect battery, then solar input. Then LOADS but with switches OFF. Now I know I have been spruiking the value of connecting the loads through the solar controller because you can set your own settings for battery type, charge and float voltages, LVD and LVR settings plus probably many others, but I have to admit that I do not know the setup for a Drifta pack. My advices have applied to the simple connection by disconnecting load circuit from battery power and connecting new leads from load circuit to load terminals of solar panel as per my previous diagrams. That means that no power is available from battery terminals and the solar controller gets its battery power for the loads from its own connections directly across the battery terminals. I am sure some of the real "TECH HEADS" on this forum who are familiar with the way a Drifta panel is wired will be able to help you there.
@Bellbirdweb or our member from Toowoomba (cannot remember forum name) really understand this method and I would trust them completely. Just remember, that as you have only a 20A controller, it can only provide you with up to 20A to power your loads. Any really heavy power loads - inverters, 12 volt kettles etc MUST be connected directly across the battery terminals and NOT through the solar controller load terminals. Any combination of loads is okay, as long as the TOTAL does not exceed 20A. Good luck.